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ability children and peer  interaction research report Bridge Centre 
eight kindergartens Huang  Xuqin Yangzhong 
Abstract: Children in kindergarten through active  exchanges 一日 investigation, which found the problem, analyze problems, look for  problems and take effective measures to be educational guidance. Peer  interaction in the survey is very important in life. Play with peers, consult  with each other to experience the friendship and to experience respect. Peer  recognition, praise, will make children feel satisfied and happy, children get  to know themselves, understand others, and learn how to get along with others,  learn cooperation, sharing, waiting, care and other acts. Our mission is to  develop young children a positive and optimistic attitude toward life, lively,  cheerful character, and good social qualities, and enhance social. Therefore, we  should enhance communication abilities of young children, so that children  become the development of the times. 
Keywords: Ability of Children with  Peers 
First, issues 
the needs of both exchanges, but also of  modern society's requirements. It seems from the position of educators, parents  want their children associating with others, and want their children to have  strong communication skills, willing to see children who have no playmates, do  not want their children alone. Teachers hope that every child can get along with  peers, mutual concern, mutual help, solidarity and cooperation. Children often  want to have real friends and playmates, and this desire more strongly with  increasing age of parents and teachers to understand the needs of children and  peer interaction, to create opportunities for children and interact with other  peers. But, after all, young children, on some basic interpersonal skills can  not be a good grasp of the process with peer interaction will inevitably occur  in a number of contradictions and conflicts. Adults can not always involved in  conflicts in a timely manner. Adults, boldly let the children think of ways to  resolve conflicts and contradictions with their peers, children develop the  ability to solve problems independently. Children often face the problem have  their own ways and means of conflict resolution, and the children themselves are  more likely to be a friendly and cooperative manner to resolve the conflict, and  more conducive to the child's development. Parents and teachers should give  children an autonomous space and opportunities, I believe that children have the  ability to resolve similar small problems. Companion ability is the children in  life, learning and interaction with others is capable of, including several  aspects of 1, the attitude of contacts, including the initiative to talk with  peers; willing to accept the invitation of fellow, together with the companion  game and experience the joy of them; 2, exchanges, including the ability do a  good job together with fellow students on duty work; to complete the assigned  adult task; can take the initiative to use assign roles to discuss a conflict  that could persuade fellow, companion unintentional mistakes will understand; 3,  friendly behavior, including willingness to put their favorite toys, food to  share with others; wash hands, drink order; play with the toys do not like  pre-empt, not exclusive; peer difficulties are willing to help. 
II study  
Subjects: Nanjing, a small class of 20 nursery children 
of time:  2008 October 27-November 27 
Third, research methods 
this  article, the author of the daily life of children in kindergarten peer  interaction to observe, understand. Using observation methods and interviews  freestyle wears police. 
interview is to focus on parents of young  children to understand the culture and improving peer interaction. 
is  observed activities were in kindergarten in the five-week random observation.  
four observed cases and one case of 
snack in young  children to wash their hands when the children's sleeves too long, the old get  the water sleeves, the teacher of the first songs specially compiled: Lala left  and right pulling, the pulling, Under Lara, turn a circle pull up. Most children  can still pull up, but cold weather, clothes to wear too many children do not  pull up, please call me to help the side to help the children, children will  say: ? At this time children will be very happy to help take the initiative, but  also help reduce the child care teacher pulled one sleeve of the burden.  Location 
Case II: Small four classes 
object: faint golden boy  
content: the water line access, children always like to rush to do  anything, all huddled together drinking will grab the cup, then the teacher to  help children learn to wait, learn to line up, learn to save water, etc. this  process, the children always like to push the kids, and once, faint water then  pushed in front of the children, the results of the water knocked over, the  golden boy fell down, a lot of children together in the back down on her, when I  was frightened In my education, the child had come to know the importance of the  queue. 
analysis: a brief dialogue between children, language exchanges  have increased the ability of children to solve problems independently, can take  the initiative to talk with peers, willing to accept the invitation of fellow,  learn some social rules and information exchanges between peers been  significantly improved, but also improve the flexibility and spoken young  children. 
case three locations: a small group of 
object: a small  bright He Hongyi 
Content: During the session under my belt every day,  the regional games, through consultation assign roles, from a certain amount of  social behavior. Children free choice of roles in the game to interact. In the  construction area and found that many children like to squeeze in there and  fight for the competition for building blocks. He Hongyi grab in blocks with a  small light, I found, I suggest that you can work together in the next build  houses and roads, and you discuss division of labor. Only in this way to resolve  conflicts, children in the game without any restraint, but education still have  to make some rules of the game, took the initiative to promote peer interaction  children. 
case four locations: Little Three 
object: Ze Jia  
Content: Good morning, Big Mama Chak excellent with children garden, a  child and see me let me say hello. a! an explanation, I can only say you opt for  what happened. But the kick is also boring answer, I do not want to force  children, because after all, I do not know what the cause and effect, but also  did not see the process of happening, I feel no right to speak, had directed at  the child's parents, said: I would like to know. I see kids looked very  embarrassed, very innocent, and Ze is only good at a loss. Parents gone, I find  time to understand the general situation about to happen, at the regional  activities, both in the doll house, cooking gas range for a dispute. Ze was not  playing good gas range. 
analysis: peer communication exchanges and  cooperation is also common in young children, so children use language to  express the purpose of action, expected results of action to help children take  the right actions, they are a series of exchanges, continue to exchange the role  of identity, the replacement of contacts to regulate their interaction and  behavior, a common companion to experience the joy of the game and gradually  learn to cooperate, exchange, taking turns, waiting, humility, compromise, such  as coordination of peer relations skills. Regional activity can significantly  improve child care contacts, but also to actively participate in activities, but  also to carry out a number of exchanges with each other across age groups, to  encourage children and kindergarten in contact with other persons, in order to  broaden the scope of child care contacts, and guide children to use appropriate  communication behavior, and further develop child care capacity. 
case  five locations: a small flights 
object: Cocoa blossoming  
content: at noon I took the children down to sleep, small age, is  generally small, so it will not undress to sleep, repeated every day how I will  undress, and then placed the clothes in good. Children will not have to wear  sweater off, next to the children needed help to pull the sleeves off, I  seriously teach this step, but I found a lot of children can not communicate  with the next child. Fixed cocoa each sitting, I asked him why he did not take  off, watching other people ah? He said: are reluctant to help me. Later, under  the guidance of my step by step, to help him off before blossoming 
case  six locations: the class 
Target: Agencies 
content: lunch, many  children are more picky and do not like to eat, the child will be left to eat a  lot of time, or even eat. Slowly said to me: She said: This situation, let the  teacher a headache, then the teacher thought of a way to allow children to eat  fast food to feed the children slowly, but more willing to eat children, and  sometimes a teacher to feed but do not eat. Children help each other, it is peer  capabilities. 
analysis: peer help-seeking behavior is very common in  everyday life, many of the details, teachers focus on peer interaction, but also  reduce the burden on teachers, with the increase contacts and exchanges between  peers ability. Initiative with peers, willing to accept the invitation of  fellow, can take the initiative of interaction with the guests. Please turn a  small child care teacher, let them serve you at the same time, they would  generate civic pride, get contacts fun. The random use of daily education,  training and exercise all aspects of children's communication skills. Seven  cases 
Venue: Three 
object: Cubs 
Content: In my  internship, every Friday is to share toys, the children brought their favorite  toys, kindergartens, and is willing to play with his friends, and some are  willing to exchange, to share his happiness, Bear said: Cong said: Eight cases  
Venue: Class Two 
object: quiet 
Content: One day  afternoon, the child playing with blocks puzzle game, have fun but also quiet,  very involved when his father came to pick her up, Aoxue just touched her toy ,  see my father came quietly excited to grab Aoxue face smoothly, the building  blocks of all pushed to the ground, we asked her what she did not answer, or  even have to fight around the kids, we tried to educate her But he basically not  listen, I try to understand her situation at home, her father said she behaved  at home, no violence, must certainly be favored at home. 
Analysis:  refusal behavior is often children's peer interaction in an act, we want to help  the children refused to interact positively identify the key contradictions. We,  as a teacher refused to let the children learn the skills, refused to take a  friendly attitude, or the reasons for the refusal, if the children refuse  inappropriate, we can guide children to be corrected for my own shortcomings, in  order to promote the development of communication skills. Guidance learn to  listen to the ideas of others, calm to state their willingness to reach a  consensus with others. Learn to communicate with parents, co-education, child  care, so that children of parents actively involved in educational activities  with, but also indicate the direction of education to parents. 
five,  reflection and Strategies 
(a) provide interaction opportunities for the  child care environment and create opportunities for interaction 
-day  life in the kindergarten, child care arrangements for the various activities is  very compact, their full and peer interaction have not much time, so we can  often see many children playing in the toilet, communication and even refused to  come out; or talk in class, do not concentrate. Clearly, such exchanges of young  children and social development is negative, even harmful. Therefore, we arrange  activities, fully guaranteed to the child have some free time and space, and  freedom of communication opportunities. Park and away from the park if they  visit the area when the activity: let them be free with their own selection area  and choose to play with peers. And outdoor activities in the game, we also  provide them with sufficient free space, we try not to interfere with the  teacher. Let them free in a free space communication. 
(b) to help  children learn to solve problems independently, to teach children communication  skills. 
in kindergarten through the collective life, the child will  encounter various problems. Children learn how the exchanges friendly  consultations, the master communication skills, we guide children to learn the  language of communication, but also to their interaction attitudes, expressions  and movements. If the construction area, we ask children to build cooperation,  solidarity with each other to practice child care, humility skills: in the  performance game, we ask children to produce their own, their rehearsals, to  practice speaking skills of young children, self-division skills. In the game,  children often from awkward to dig, from the strange to adapt to their exchanges  and cooperation with their peers to feel the fun and satisfaction. In addition,  we can participate as a friend to go to the activities, and actively guide and  do demonstrations, activities to help children there to remove obstacles, so  that children master the Activities. 
(c) with the strength, interaction  interaction and improve child care skills development. 
through the  group, we let the communication ability of young children and children with  weaker capacity, interaction influence each other. 
ability of children  to the weak capacity to promote child care, so that they can be more enjoyable  to participate in active communication activities. For some children do not want  to participate in group games and we respect their wishes, not force them, but  also find time to help his team build with other games closely. Because the  ability to improve children's communication skills is a gradual process, and  promote exchanges in respect of not Yijue. Outdoor activities and walking  activities using both the opening of the Park concentration of active time,  carry out cross-age interaction activities; encourage young children to the park  with access to such other persons, in order to broaden the scope of exchanges  between young children, guide children to use appropriate interaction behavior,  and further improve children's communication skills. 
(d) home  interactive training skills of young children, set an example for the children.  
children's bad habits to form the mental disorders, mostly formed in the  home. In carrying out psychological education in early childhood, home to the  same principles must be emphasized that in order to achieve maximum educational  effectiveness. In carrying out the process of infant mental education, adhere to  the parents in school activities. First, parents set up a Secondly, in order to  parents indicate direction of education, teachers have taken great pains: the  use of parents treat their children the right education. Also organized a number  of parent-child games and activities, such as and let the parents understand the  process of children's activities, to share the joy of children. In addition,  also take advantage of a good types of communication from time to time, with  education, guidance, and that individual children in a relationship, there is  new breakthrough. 
May we work together, focusing on the communication  ability of children to enable children to become the 21st century with a sound  pillars of character. 
VI References 
1, E.O. M. Ivanova, TB Gus  Bokova. Preschoolers and research peers. International Social Science Bulletin,  1988,11 
2, Zou Hong, peer relations function and influencing factors,  psychosocial development and education, 1998,2
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